Sexual abuse is NEVER okay. You have the right to feel safe and protected. If you or someone you know has been sexually abused, there are services that you can go to for help.
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Sexual abuse is where someone does something sexual that makes you feel uncomfortable, or touches your body in a sexual way without your consent.
In Victoria it is a crime to:
There are also additional laws that apply to sexual behaviour towards children and young people, including:
Consent means a person freely agrees to the sexual activity. It is against the law to do a sexual act to, or with, someone without their consent. Someone does not consent if they do not say or do anything to communicate consent.
The legal age of consent in Victoria is 16. This means that a person under 16 years of age cannot consent to sexual activity.
In Victoria, consent to a sexual activity with a person who is between the ages of 12 – 15 can be a defence to sexual crimes if both people are 12 or over, and the difference in age is less than 2 years.
A person who is under the age of 12 can never consent to sexual activity.
Consent is more complicated than just believing that the other person consented. For this reason, it’s always best to check.
Even if someone says “yes”, there are some situations in which they cannot consent. The law says a person does not consent if they:
If you are thinking of doing something sexual with someone else, it is really important that you make sure you know how old the other person is, and check that they agree to the sexual act. You should take reasonable steps to make sure the other person consents. This might include:
Consent can be withdrawn at any time. It is also important to know that just because someone has consented in the past, it does not mean that they have given consent forever. Consent needs to be given every time you have sex or do something sexual with another person.
You can find out more on our page on consent.
If you are ever in immediate danger, please call the police straight away on 000 (triple zero). If you have been sexually abused, you have the right to be protected and you can report the abuse by calling your local police station.
Sexual abuse is never okay.
If you or someone you know has been sexually abused, there are services you can go to for help. We have provided this information below.
If you have been sexually abused, we strongly recommend that you get medical care. A doctor can test and treat you for any sexually transmitted infections, carry out a forensic examination (if you were abused very recently and you wish to report the crime to the police) and provide information on sexual abuse and follow-up services.
If you have been sexually abused, it is never your fault. If you feel comfortable, we encourage you to talk to someone you trust like a parent, family member, a close friend or a school counsellor about what happened. If you don’t want to tell anyone you know, you might feel more comfortable talking to a counsellor over the phone. You could call:
You can also look for other local services that may be available to you here.
If someone has said you sexually abused them or the police want to talk to you about something you did, you should seek legal advice right away.
If you have been sexually abused, you can make a report to the police. You can do this by going to your local police station, or ringing the police assistance line on 131 444 (open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week). If the abuse just happened, or if it is an emergency, please call the police on 000.
You can take a support person with you when you speak to police, such as a friend or family member. Sexual assault counsellors can also support you through the police process.
If you are the victim of sexual abuse, you do not have to make a report to police. It is your choice about whether, and if so when, you make a report to the police. There are no limits on when you can report sexual abuse to the police, even if the sexual abuse happened a long time ago.
However, if you are under 17, and you tell someone else what happened, they might have to make a report to the police if they are a mandatory reporter (this can include teachers and doctors).
If you are thinking about reporting to the police, but you aren’t sure if you are ready, it can be a good idea to write down everything you remember about what happened, so that you have those details if you do decide to report. Remember to keep these details in a safe place.
You can also contact your local Sexual Offences and Child Abuse Investigation Team (SOCIT). This is a specialist team of detectives who are trained to investigate sexual assault and child abuse. You can find information about how to contact your local SOCIT team here.
If you are the victim of sexual abuse in Victoria, there may be a number of different ways you can get compensation or assistance, depending on what happened to you. These include:
If you think you might want to apply for compensation of support for sexual abuse, it is a good idea to talk to a lawyer to find out what your options are. You can contact us for free and confidential advice here.
You can also find out more about sexual abuse by looking at these websites:
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