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Lots of young people sext, but you should think carefully before you do. The only way to be completely legally safe when sexting is for both people to be over 18, and to consent. Remember that once an image or video is shared, it is very hard to control how it is used after that.

If a sext is sent without someone’s consent, or if a sext is threatening or harassing, then it can be serious. See our page on Image-based abuse for more information. 

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What is sexting?

Sexting is using a mobile phone, computer or the internet to send, receive or share nude or sexual pictures or videos (sometimes known as ‘nudes’), or sexy texts.

Sexting is not a crime if everyone involved is over 18, and consents. However, you should think carefully before you do, and only sext with someone you trust. Once an image or video is shared, it is very hard to control how it is used after that.

Sexting without consent

Sharing an intimate or sexy image or a video of someone without their consent is image-based abuse, and it can be a crime. You can check out our pages on Image based abuse for more information on non-consensual sexting.

Remember, just because someone has sent you a sext, it does not automatically mean they consent to the sext being shared with anyone else. People are allowed to change their minds about sexting at any time!

When sexting involves someone under 18

Sexting can be a crime if it involves people under 18, even if they have consented. 

In South Australia, it is illegal to make, share, request, access or have images or recordings that are offensive and show a person under 18 (or show someone who looks like they are under 18) in a sexual way. This includes texts or pictures of children and young people who are:

  • posing in a sexual way
  • involved in a sexual act
  • with someone else who is posing in a sexual way or involved in a sexual act
  • showing their genital area, anal area or their breasts for a sexual purpose.

These sorts of images or videos are also called ‘child abuse material’, and ‘child exploitation material’. Child abuse material can be photos or videos, but also other images like drawings and even cartoons. It also includes pictures that have been photoshopped or digitally altered to make the person look young or naked. 

There are South Australian and national laws about this. The South Australian law applies to images and videos of people who are (or seem to be) under 17 years old but the national law applies to images and videos of people who are (or seem to be) under 18 years old. These laws apply at the same time in South Australia so the older age of 18 years applies!

If you are 18 or over, we recommend that you don’t sext with anyone under 18, especially if they are under 16. Sexting someone under 16 can be a serious crime under the national law.

When sexting involves harassment or threats

Sexting can also be a form of harassment. For example, someone might keep bothering you for a naked picture of yourself. Or they might send you naked pictures that you don’t want, even if you tell them to stop. Or they might threaten to send a naked picture of you to other people without your permission.

Sexting that involves harassment or threats can be a crime, especially if it is done using the internet or your phone. If someone is harassing or threatening you, you can report them to police. If it is not an emergency, you can call the Police Assistance Line on 131 444. If you are scared for your safety or in immediate danger, you should call the police on 000. 

Consequences for breaking the law

If you commit a crime involving child abuse or child exploitation material, the consequences can be very serious. You could be investigated and charged by the police, and if you are found guilty you could end up with a criminal record or even go to jail. For some offences you could also be placed on the South Australia Child Sex Offenders Register, which is a register of people who commit certain offences against children. 

If you are under 18, the chances of you getting into trouble for sexting are lower, especially if you are sexting someone who is around your age with their permission. However, every situation is different. It’s safer if you don’t ask for, send, post online, or keep on your phone or computer nude or sexual images of someone under 18.

If you might have committed one or more of these crimes and you are contacted by the police, we strongly recommend you get legal advice straight away. For free legal advice, you can contact us. You can also contact your local Community Legal Centre, or the Legal Services Commission of South Australia on 1300 366 424.

Most websites, phone companies and social media services have rules that apply to sending, posting or sharing nude or sexual pictures or offensive text. If you break these rules the material could be removed, your account could be suspended or closed, or you could even be reported to the police.

What can I do if I’m worried about a sext?

If you are worried about a sext someone has sent you, we recommend you:

  • delete any images you are uncomfortable with straight away, especially if the person in the picture has asked you to;
  • don’t send these images to anyone else or post them online; 
  • if someone is sending you sexts, and you don’t want to receive them, ask them to stop; and
  • never request, share or keep sexts involving people under 18.

If you are worried about a nude or sexual picture of you that someone has taken or shared (or threatened to take or share), there are things you can do to protect yourself, including:

  • collecting evidence 
  • getting the images removed from the a website or social media
  • getting legal advice
  • reporting the behaviour to police.

See our page on Image based abuse – What can I do if someone has shared or threatened to share my intimate images? for more information.

Get legal advice

If you are worried about a nude or sexual image you or someone else has taken, or a sext that’s been shared, we recommend you get legal advice. 

A lawyer can help you work out what you should do, including how to get images removed or deleted if they have been shared or posted online. For free legal advice, you can contact us. You can also contact your local Community Legal Centre, or the Legal Services Commission of South Australia on 1300 366 424.

Talk to someone

If you are feeling down, anxious or stressed about the situation, we encourage you to talk to someone you trust like a friend, your parents or another trusted adult. If you would rather talk to someone you don’t know, you can call one of these services for free and private counselling support.

  • Kids Helpline 1800 551 800 (available 24/7, for young people between 5 and 25)
  • eHeadspace 1800 650 890 (available 9am to 1am, everyday, for young people between 12 and 25) 
  • Lifeline 13 11 14 (available 24/7, for all ages)
  • QLife1800 184 527 (available 3pm to midnight, everyday, for all ages)
  • 1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 (available 24/7, for all ages)
  • Mensline Australia 1300 78 99 78 (available 24/7, for men of all ages)

Reviewed 9 February 2021 


Criminal Code 1995 (Cth)

Criminal Consolidation Act 1935 (SA)

Child Sex Offenders Registration Act 2006 (SA)

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